How to Tell if a Man Wants You

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Recently, on my Youtube Channel, I shared How to Tell if a Man Wants You. If you aren't subscribed to my channel yet, I encourage you to pause what you're doing, and subscribe, so you can be up to date on my weekly videos!

So, how can you tell if a man really wants you? I'm glad you asked!

A man who is really interested in you and really wants you will do whatever it takes to make you his! I've seen it time and time again, in my own life as well as in the lives of others. Have you ever seen a man who is nonchalant about a woman for a while and then they break up, and not too long after that failed relationship, he's engaged to someone else? Crazy right? I always used to wonder how a guy could be so disinterested, nonchalant and apply little/no effort with one woman, and in a matter of weeks or months, be engaged to another woman. 

The reason for this is that men know. They know when they want someone and they know when they don't. They know if they can see you by their side in the future or if you're just a short term type of woman. When a woman is a short term type of woman, she will find that he may not put in much effort or he may be slow to progress the relationship. However, when a man finds a woman that he is sure of, nothing can stop him from doing what it takes to make her his.

When I was single, I got to know plenty of men who were slow to progress the relationship, let me do all the work, didn't behave as if he was all in, made me play guessing games about his intentions, didn't keep his word, didn't spend much quality time with me, etc. Those situations always left me so frustrated. I remember one instance where I was talking to a guy for months before it fizzled out. Less than 6 months later, he had met someone new and proposed to her! I was stunned! 

When it comes to my husband though, he showed me that he was all in from the beginning. He communicated clearly, didn't leave me guessing, stated his intentions, progressed our relationship, etc. My husband proposed to me 10 months after we started talking, (that's 7 months after we began courting).

Make no mistake about it, a man will do what it takes to make you his! He doesn't need help doing it, he isn't too shy, and it usually doesn't take him too long either. A man who wants you will make you his (if you let him, of course). So, if you have a man who is unclear and leaving you playing "Sherlock Holmes", it may be safe to consider that he may not want you THAT badly. Don't settle Sis! Believe God to send you his best in His perfect timing. Wait for the man who will do what it takes to make you his. After all, Jesus did it for you!